STAGES TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP. ~ DIAMONDZ REVOLUTION

STAGES TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP

There is a natural order to things in life. If you want to be rich you have you have to identify your goal and work hard towards achieving it, no matter how long, when the result comes eventually there is always a feeling of accomplishment and fulfilment that sets in your heart.

The moment we begin to look for alternatives to hard work trying to go through corny means. The effects of our decisions are bound to result in us ending up in unpleasant situations on the long run. Patience, commitment and hard work are key to any success story. And this philosophy applies to relationships too. If you as a man let your libido do the thinking for you Or If you as a woman let greed take over your reasoning and motive for a relationship, then things would definitely end sour.

So here are four steps to building a solid and successful relationship. Listed below

Friendship

Trust

Love

Lover.

We start with Friendship:

Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two people, it is the foundation and platform on which every other thing that constitutes a relationship is built upon. Friendship is simply getting to know the other person, taking interest in who they are, what they do and also its sharing a part of you with them. Friendship builds understanding and solidifies trust; it helps you determine if this person is somebody you could co-exist with in a relationship.

To have a solid or successful relationship you have to be patient in getting to know your partner. The stronger your bond and closer you become the brighter the future looks for the two you.

TRUST

Trust is to have firm belief or total confidence in someone or a person. There are no two ways to trust its either you trust someone or you don’t, and only with true friendship come such trust. Trust is truth, trust is being sincere. As a man trust is you being able to share your deepest secrets with your partner, trust is baring out your fears and weakness for her to see, trust is making her feel appreciated and indispensable. For you as a woman trust is the total support you give your man and your unconditional love, Trust is the absence of doubt and the presence of patience. Trust is built by sharing, when you share everything together from your success to your failures, pain to happiness without holding anything back. Trust is another corner stone in the foundation of a successful relationship.

LOVE

Having passed through the first two steps at this point your heart would have been assured of what it wants, love comes from the heart. Bertrand Russell Describes love as a condition of “absolute value” has opposed to “relative value” philosopher GottfriedLeibruz said: Love is to be delighted by the happiness of another, While Biologist Jeremy Griffin Describe love as unconditional selflessness. If the way you’re feeling about that particular person aligns with any of this description then that is love. Friendship and trust create a conducive atmosphere for love to flourish and you are bound to enjoy stability, security and happiness in your relationship.

LOVER

It’s only natural that with love there comes an intense feeling of deep affection with deep affection or sexual attachment to the person you love. Most people tend to skip to the lover step as fast as they can, but it never helps in any relationship when sex is the driving motive. But if you build your relationship from the “Friendship stage- Trust- Love” you endup having a lover who is your friend first and foremost which helps with communication in bed and a lover whom you trust completely and a lover who loves you so much your coming together is more than just sex but lovemaking.

Though nothing is guaranteed in life but following this steps in your pursuit of a happiness putsyou in a better; position of having a stable, strong and successful relationship. Remember PATIENCE IS KEY.